Just grab normally instead of going 5m jets/1m turrets and topfeeding guys you can tell can easily retal. That's abusing your DR. If you're using your DR to protect you instead of turrets, that's abusing your DR. No one AB'd you until I did. By then you already had 25k land! Your tech wasn't great but you were in position for a pretty high score. NOW you won't score anywhere, true, cuz now you've been AB'd and have 0 c-sites.